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We’re all weirdos, I think. And incapable of meeting real people (normies) outside of our current social stratum - it’s too stressful. You wouldn’t agree?
The biggest problem I have when I date girls is them not being able to wrap their heads around the hardcore community and…
I think girls not being able to understand hardcore when dating a guy is much different than vice versa. If I were to ever date a guy outside of the hardcore community (and even WITHIN), and he saw me at shows (there is now video evidence thanks to hate5six), he would think I’m disgusting. I mean, a ton of hardcore dudes think I’m disgusting, too.
I’ve had multiple crushes on multiple people across the country, and I don’t think it’s weird. I just think it sucks. However, I have found that all of my ‘long-distance’ relationships prove worthless and horrible in the end. I have no idea how to rectify that, however.
SUP KYLE BABY
I am dating a “hardcore” girl for the first time in my life and it is definitely a weird thing for me already. Even though I am familiar with this community and such, just knowing she is one of those sweaty, tattoo covered chicks who goes to shows as well and has dude friends from touring bands is just a real role reversal for me.
It’s not something that I really want to do.
Going to shows is like a safe haven for me, I would feel (and have felt) really uncomfortable when that space is being intruded on by my significant other.
OR I’m just dating the wrong people. That could also be true.
I definitely hear what you are saying here. Going to shows and stuff used to be a thing I could do and it would be my “own” thing and have my own friends there and kind of something different. It is weird now that I live out here and will be “sharing” these things with her. Its like these two worlds I live in are finally converging on one another.
I understand that hardcore is a safe-haven for some people (which is odd, because it’s slightly becoming that way for me, when for years it was simply a place that served to make me feel humiliated and terrible, but I loved the music, so I stuck around), and it makes me feel better knowing not wanting a significant other involved in that scene doesn’t come from a misogynistic place necessarily. However, I do feel like that still exists (I’m not saying within either of you, but, you know), and it upsets me. I am one of those tattooed, sweaty girls who goes to shows, loves the music, is friends with many people across the country, and I love it. in my opinion, if a guy cannot accept me for those things, for the fact that if True Colors plays, I will, in fact, go off for them, then maybe he’s not the guy for me. I know I’m a lot to handle as a woman - very aggressive, very opinionated, and slightly emasculating, but those can be great traits, too, when paired next to the right person. I just haven’t found a guy whose strong enough to handle all of me. And I think that’s a positive way of putting it.
i’m pretty sure the entirety of b9 would put heart eyes right now.
I’m one hundred percent positive over half of B9 wouldn’t be able to comprehend what I just said. Also, they may put heart eyes when I where a pencil skirt, but after seeing me practically ‘mosh,’ I’m sure they’ll reject the sentiment.
would…
…two step down the aisle with you
I don’t even think I could do that!
Same. I’ve only moshed for maybe a total of 30 seconds combined in my life. It seems like such an easy thing to do..until you go try to do it and you feel super awkward and lame.
I TIP MY HAT TO ALL YOU MOSH PROS OUT THERE WHO MAKE IT LOOK EASY
i’d much prefer a girl who thinks “b9” is a vitamin. Thanks
